Tommy O'Brien
photo by: We Are The Rhoads.
1) Tell us a little bit about yourself, your story and where you come from.
I get the name Tommy after my grandfather Thomas Thaddeus O’Brien, who had a son named Thomas Michael O’Brien, who thought it’d be a good idea to skip any confusion and bestow the legacy onto me at birth. I grew up in a town called Kennewick in Eastern Washington and moved to Los Angeles for school and work a little over a year ago. Right now I’m studying Communications and Bible, working as a commercial model in LA, writing and recording music with some friends and trying to pay it all off with a side job at our school bookstore. I’ve spent the last twenty-one years looking relentlessly for the things that make me come to life and hope to continue this journey till my last breath this side of heaven. People and their stories fuel this desire, so I try my best to communicate the things they teach me to whoever will sit across from a cup of coffee and conversation.
2) What are you currently reading/watching/listening to?
I’m about ¾ in to about half of my literary collection, which has raised a bit of a problem considering I carry most of them in a ripped denim backpack wherever I go. A few of the books in my bag at the moment are The Catcher in the Rye - Salinger, A Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man - Joyce, Big Sur – Kerouac, and The Inner Voice of Love – Nouwen. To me, books are a lot like friends. I swear it’s not in the creepy “I draw a face on my hand and talk to it when I’m lonely” kind of way. When I read, I hear the different voices of narration and care more about the way they are telling their stories than worrying about finishing one conversation at a time. When I read multiple books at a time, I can listen to multiple people’s stories and relate their metaphysical similarities, perhaps similar to how a therapist would by analyzing people’s case studies. So far it’s been extremely eye opening, but maybe I’ll end up realizing I just have literary ADD.
I love watching TED talks late at night. There’s something about the night time that stirs curiosity in me, away from all the noise and distraction.
I listen to as much diverse music as possible, probably because of my upbringing. I’m the only musician in my family, but I definitely got my mother’s musical taste. From a young age our house was filled with Earth Wind & Fire, Michael Jackson, Prince, Elton John, Phil Collins…the classics of a middle aged woman born in the late 50’s. Also, from the time I was eight years old I was in a touring marimba band, playing drums for my church and teaching myself to play guitar and piano by mimicking the sounds I’d hear on Jack Johnson records. Taste is a great thing to develop as a creative, but in order to begin that process I believe a person must be exposed to as many sights and sounds as possible before drawing a box around themselves.
photo by: Andrew Parsons Photography
3) What's an ideology you live by?
See everybody as a teacher. I’m a follower of Jesus Christ, and have found ultimate life from this active relationship. However, I think even Christians sometimes put walls up against universal truths when they aren’t taught within the walls of a church. There is so much to learn by pursuing intentional relationships with people who have different stories and constructively challenging beliefs.
4) If you could travel anywhere, where would you go?
Ireland. As a kid my grandfather would always talk about our Irish heritage. He passed away last September and I wish I would have gotten the chance to visit our home land together. I hope some day I’ll make the trip with my dad.
photo by: We Are The Rhoads.
5) What are three things you want to accomplish before you die?
This is a heavy question. I want to marry my best friend, share our lives with our children, and never stop following my convictions. I think these three things will lead me to discovering accomplishments I couldn’t even begin to envision at the moment.
6) How can we, as young people, inspire and encourage others?
Today’s youth has such an opportunity to reshape the world around us, for better or worse. I could go on for days discussing how important a child’s mind is in its stages of development (to be genuinely loved and affirmed as unique human beings), as well as the importance for these minds to have an opportunity to flourish in their intended environments (to understand that life is an empty canvas for their uniqueness to create an original work of art). However in order for that discussion to take place, I think the youth must first realize how important it is to care for other people. We are only as good as those we care about least.
photo by: We Are The Rhoads.
7) If you could tell the whole world one thing, what would it be?
That thing you are still searching for, that emptiness you’ll try to fill with anything you can get your hands on, is the one thing that makes you the exact same as every person you’ll encounter every single day for the rest of your life. This mysterious gap in humanity is the one thing that will bring us together if filled with a Love that supersedes pride, envy, selfishness, or any material possession. Never lose your curiosity for this Love.